the hard shit

Pregnant Pause

  I have never given having children much consideration. Maybe it’s because I was an only child of a single mom and I watched…

Cake

  It was the middle of a Canadian winter when my son was born, so many a cold day had to be spent shuffling…

Eugene – Eugene

We named it Eugene-Eugene.  Both of our father’s carry this middle name, which they begged us not to continue, and what we thought would…

Loss and Miscarriage

  Sometimes loss is sadly a part of pregnancy and it’s often a dark topic that nobody wants to talk about and you become…