It’s really hard to find a nice gift for a new mother sometimes. Do you get something practical? Sentimental? Is it someone you want to go all out for, or someone you just want to give a small gesture?
Well, here are a few ideas that go beyond the flowers and silver rattles for some kick ass stuff that a new mom will really enjoy.
I’m going to start with the gesture stuff and work my way up. All too often sites and magazines launch into gifts that Jay Z would give someone with a private island, and not something you’d like to give your next-door-neighbour that you only chit chat with over the fence.

Food:
I don’t think you can ever go wrong with food – well, I guess you can if you’re a shitty cook but I’m going to leave that to your judgment. Give her something she can pop in the freezer if she’s already overloaded with goodies and give it to her in something she doesn’t have to give back like an oven ready baking dish. If you can, try to make things you can eat with one hand or with just a fork as an extra bonus for someone that’s holding a baby a lot.
If you’re feeling really cool, you can set up a Meal Baby or Meal Train account so you can get everyone feeding these folks for a while.
What’s that you say? You really can’t cook or you live far away? There’s a service called Send a Meal that will deliver a delicious home-style meal right to her door. It ain’t cheap but it sure beats a giant flower arrangement that does sweet bugger all, plus, they have lasagna. Bring it to mah belly!

Diapers:
If you know they’re going the disposable route, a pack of the next size up diapers are often an overlooked yet welcomed gift for new parents because there are always those “shit we’re out of diapers” moments when your stash runs low.
There’s also a wicked service called Diaper Dabbler that will send a sampler pack of different diapers so she can get a feel for which one works for her without buying a whole box.
Cloth diapers are a little trickier because you tend to go with a certain brand, but if you know what she using and want to buy some, by all means, go for it. I knew a couple of people that used cloth and used disposable as a backup, but tread lightly here because some people may take exception to you offering up disposable when they’ve opted for cloth.

Goodie Bag:
One of the best gifts I ever received was from a friend that is a veteran mom of three. She gave me a little bag filled with a reusable water bottle, trashy magazines, chocolate bars, small bags of almonds, chapstick and a gift certificate to a coffee place I could walk to. I used all of it. All of it.

Time:
One of the best things you can give a new mom is your time. If you’re a good friend of hers, then there’s nothing better than having someone take you out for a walk, or sit on the couch to chat, or hold your baby while she has a shower. Say something like “I could pop by for a visit next Tuesday or Thursday. If that would work for you let me know what time is convenient and I’ll bring lunch (breakfast, the car so we can go out for a bite).” Just make sure you aren’t adding to her workload. If she’s a really tidy person by nature she may not want you seeing her dirty house and stay up all night cleaning it when she should be napping. If she’s not up to it, leave it alone and opt for something else – there are entire Facebook threads dedicated to asshats that demand to come over and hang out with new parents. Don’t be that asshat.
On a side note, if you are the new mom, here are a few tips for handling visitors.

Netflix:
Netflix or Amazon Video would have changed my damn life if I’d had it when my son was born. It wasn’t around at the time so I just watched the Food Network. A lot. Then I figured out that I could rent a movie and watch it during the night when I was feeding him. I slept on the couch and he slept beside me in a bassinet. When he’d wake up I would feed him and watch the movie. When he’d fall asleep I would put him back down and pause the DVD. It would have been awesome to have something like Netflix for the round-the-clock schedule of a newborn. You can get a one-month subscription for $10 so it’s not a bank breaker either.

Day You Were Born Box:
It’s a really neat keepsake to have a collection of what was going on the day your baby was born. New parents are often kinda busy on that day, so if you pick up newspaper clippings, photos, notes, etc. and leave some places where mom and dad can pop all the odd keepsakes that come along, you’ll be saving them a ton of legwork. If you’re having trouble channeling your inner Joanna Gains, you can find some cute ideas for what to include on Pinterest.

Keepsakes:
If you want something that’s more sentimental than practical (I’m looking at you dads) then you may want to go the keepsake route. I love this initial necklace from Soul Peaces but I have a whole board on Pinterest dedicated to incredible keepsakes that will remind her that she’s a kick ass mother if you’re looking for some more inspiration.

Subscription Boxes:
I think subscription boxes are an incredible idea. Gifts, like visitors, often come in a flurry in the beginning but peter out when you are really feeling the toll of parenthood, so these are such a beautiful idea to keep the good times rolling. You can get everything from diapers, to cookies, to clothes and you don’t have to be up on your baby stuff to send them – these guys do all the work for you.
You can check out my Subscriptions for New & Expectant Parents board for more ideas.
If you’re giving a gift to a new mother who has an older child, consider getting a subscription for them instead. Not only will it occupy the kiddo while mom is getting the hang of the new weeble, it’s a nice reminder to the older child that they still count. Little Feminist Book Club is a fun box that comes with a socially conscious book and activity, and is great for boys and girls alike in the 3-8 age range. I also really love these craft boxes from Green Craft Kids. They are appropriate for both boys and girls ages 3-8 and have all the goods in the box so you aren’t rummaging around for glue with a newborn trying to latch onto your boob.

Postpartum Doula:
Pardon? These exist? Why didn’t I know about them when I had my babies?!
A Postpartum Doula is like that newborn pro that comes to the house. She can help you get over breastfeeding hurdles, keep an eye out for postpartum mood disorders, and generally provide a hands-on education on mother and infant care.
They aren’t cheap (nor should they be), but if you have a large family or a company that is itching to buy you something big, I can’t think of a better gift. Here’s a link to find one in your area, and here’s a link for tips on how to choose one.

Give a gift to someone else:
If you’re buying for a mom that really has it all, I don’t think you can ever go wrong with helping other moms. For $12 you can buy a newborn checkup from Plan Canada. From Unicef you can buy a baby scale, HIV Test or ever a whole Midwifery Kit to deliver 50 babies – 50 babies!!
It’s always nice to congratulate new moms (and dads) on the new addition to their family and help out a little even if the gesture is small. After all, it takes a village to raise a child – and, if you’re lucky – a postpartum doula.
Related: Best Gifts for Babies
There are some good ideas here. As a mom of four, here’s my best advice: buy what’s on her registry. New mom goes through a lot of time picking out exactly which products she wants, so choosing from her list is the best way to make sure she actually wants and needs whatever you’re getting her. I would be cautious about giving “keepsake” items. I was given so many baby books that I never found the time to fill out. That said, one really great one I got was a “one-line-a-day” mother’s journal. Anyone can find a minute to jot down one special moment from most days.
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FYI, I tried 4 of the links to different subscription services on your pinterest board, and none of them worked…….
Thanks for the heads up! I’ll go over there and check the links.
Love the recommendations, but I kept looking for a unique gift that would truly align with both the baby and the mom and came across The Mommy Pendant. (https://www.themommypendant.com/) The wife instantly loved it and it was a great way to have a symbolic gift of both my son and her! 🙂 Highly recommend to your readers!
I love the idea of the day you were born box! So stinkin’ cute!
Awesome list ! We are of course big fans of the subscription boxes – you would love our bundles for mom-to-be by trimester at http://www.babybumpbundle.com! We also have a baby box and a nursing bundle as well and even a shop filled with pregnancy nursing and baby goodies for moms 🙂
My sister wants to do a diaper cake for my shower and I asked her not to since we will be using cloth diapers. However, I wouldn’t be offended if someone bought some for me as a gift. I would keep some around for if we are traveling or will be out all day long. If all it takes to sabotage someone’s intentions is buying them a box of diapers, they weren’t all that serious about it anyway. If I get a few boxes, I will politely thank the giver, then exchange them for something else that I need. 🙂 I have to say I do like the idea of anyone willing to come over and do laundry for me!
Above all ideas are like good and really helpful for mom, I like most one is Goodie Bag and Day You Were Born Box, Like this are unique to give her. Great post!
Here’s another great gift for new moms – it’s a daily calendar journal that you re-use every year, so they can write down important milestone’s in baby’s life! Date of birth, first smile, first crawl, first day of school! http://www.theboxbros.com/store/p19/%22TheCalendarJournal_Box%22.html
The perfect gifts set that one can give a new mom would be nursing necklace with pretty colors.
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The food idea is so smart!!! I always bring a gift when I meet the new baby, but never think to bring food as well. I have to start doing that. The gift we’ve been giving lately (since someone gave one to us) is the Snug Square Play Mat http://www.babymushroom.com… everyone has LOVED it.
Definitely agree with all of these! As a mum of 3 – food was the best gift I was given the last time round. Our local church rallied round and we were given a family meal and desert everyday for the first two weeks! My children have never eaten so well!! Ah well, it’s back to super noodles now 🙂
I have to say, those that brought round gifts for my other two were well received too – crafty things to make and do with them together were good and helped with the whole ‘guilt’ feeling you get when you have more than one.
lovely gifts! nice post.. 🙂
Great ideas and I love the way you write…..so informal. Thanks
Love these amazing personalized photo wood blocks of the new baby. https://www.etsy.com/listing/154201655/personalized-baby-or-pregnancy-photo
Great list. You don’t like one idea, keep going till you get to something that resonates. DO IT!
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The gift I’m most looking forward to is a few hours in a sauna with my ipod. My mom got me a giftcard to my favorite naked-lady spa awhile back specifically to use for post baby me time and I can not wait to use it on the day when I truly need it.
Also, I’d say no to any keepsake thing. Keepsakes, frames, what have you are like art or clothes. Everyone has a personal style. I’ve already received so many baby things that just aren’t us and I have no qualms with donating it to someone else or just chucking it. I told these people to just get things off our registry, so when they don’t listen then they just waste money. Not my problem. If I got a keepsake item that I would never use, I’d feel just a little bad, since I didn’t register for anything like that so they didn’t know–but I wish it was known by the world that if you want to get something tangible, to ask first if you already have 5 other keepsakes (that you don’t need) or simply ask what I would like before the baby arrives. That, to me, is way more thoughtful then some etsy monogrammed thing that I’ll likely toss the second you leave the house.
Also, I love this blog! I’d love to see a list of things to not say or do if a soon-to-be mom is late. Being 41 weeks today, I feel totally calm but it’s everyone else who are driving me bat shit. Like I almost want to have this baby just so everyone else shuts the eff up about it. You know you’ve reached your limit when your mom asks if you knew that sex induces labor and I should try that. Gee, Mom, thanks for the tip that I never knew about until you told me. You’re a genius! I’m gonna have sex right after I eat that pineapple with cayenne pepper on a bouncy ball while getting acupuncture as I walk 5 miles. Thanks for the tip that only you have told me about in the last 7 days! (hope you got the sarcasm)
Great gift ideas! We love creating gifts for new mums too, in the form of baby gift baskets! Our favourite is for Mummy, Daddy & Baby!
I HAVE that Soul Peaces necklace and I ADORE it. She is great about creating it for exactly what you need (in our case, just one leaf for our little one on the twig). It’s def. my current fave piece of jewelry!
Another subscription box that focuses on healthy, organic and eco-friendly products is LittleEcoFootprint. Designed for moms with children under three years of age, and tailored to your child. https://littleecofootprint.com
Oh, that’s a good one! You beat me to the punch as I was just adding it to the board!
Another other great subscription box for older siblings are KiwiCrate.com. Also for healthy snacks for mom Naturebox.com does an AMAZING monthly delivery box. I love it so much. Great post and great Pinterest board on subscriptions!
Those are fantastic! Thanks for the heads up!
I’m 7 mo post partum and I could still use all of these things! Awesome list 🙂
buying Disposable diapers for a Mother who is trying to get a Cloth Diapering Routine going is the same as buying a breastfeeding Mother a can of Formula! It is undermining and tantamount to sabotage. The best part about cloth is that you are NEVER out of cloth! a cleaning service or perhaps someone willing to come over and do a load of laundry is a much better idea for a new Cloth Diapering Mom!
Fair enough, although, all the cloth diaperers (is that a word) I knew always had a couple of disposables on hand as a back up. If you think they would be offended then by all means skip it. I’m not sure I would go so far as saying it’s undermining them like offering a breastfeeder formula but perhaps I haven’t been around anyone that’s been nasty to people that decided to go the cloth route. Good idea about the diaper service or laundry loads!